Grab it by the balls/horns

Sometimes actions are better then words. You must take these actions and make them real. Stop thinking on all the negative aspects of the reality of a situation but take the bull by the horns. If the situation does not work or it completely rejects you, then just be happy you had the balls to do it and a little adrenalin rush.

However, limits are part of life. Always have limits or the world would be an even darker and twisted f***** up place then it already is.